December 21, 2025: Advent 4: When You’re Afraid, Give Me Your Hand
Matthew 1: 18-25
Rev. Dr. Leslie Taylor, preaching
"Give me your hand" might challenge how we usually respond to fear, but what if fear can build connection instead of causing separation? Joseph faces his fears of rejection and shame to stand beside Mary, protecting her from harm. Their bond makes them both stronger. We don't fulfill our callings alone — our collective thriving depends on each person embracing their calling despite fears. How can we support each other? Where can we reach out when fear makes us feel isolated? When do we need to accept an outstretched hand? And can we, like Joseph, use our power and privilege to stand in solidarity with those whose lives are at risk?
In our theme this week, we're exploring the directive, "give me your hand" from multiple perspectives. We might imagine Joseph speaking these words to Mary, with Mary offering them back in return. We could imagine God whispering this to us, and us saying it aloud to someone in need of solidarity and support. "Give me your hand" functions both as a plea for help and a gesture of support; living in mutuality means that sometimes we are the ones in need and other times we are the ones offering aid.
The goal this week is to prevent fear from dividing and isolating us, instead using it as a catalyst for connection. Many of you, sitting in the pews or listening from home, may see yourselves as those in need of an outstretched hand. Still, I also want to take this message further by emphasizing our responsibility to our neighbors. Action, risk, and solidarity are essential parts of Christian love. How can we use our power and privilege to stand with others? When it's tempting to turn away and isolate ourselves, let us instead embody Joseph's humility, tenacity, and courage by extending an outstretched hand.
Music this week:
O Come All Ye Faithful
Hark the Herald Angels Sing
What if Love Were My Gift This Christmas?
Infant Holy, Infant Lowly
Light of the World
The First Noel